Another of the points of my ‘Girls’ post was that there are things I take from each relationship. Things I use to learn what I want. All of my campfire relationships. My 2s. There’s something about all of them. Some part. Small or big that I enjoy. Something I hold as something to look for.
I take all of this in my head and piece together what would basically be the perfect girl. The perfect relationship. (Which are the 2 that fall into #1.. Those that. Come very close to my Frankenstein.) In some cases I stated what it was that I enjoyed. In others. I did not.
For example. In talking to one of these people about my Jeep. I said. “I took my top off.” And before I even said it. I knew the response would be “Slut.” But I absolutely love that. I enjoy being able to call each other Slut or Whore or whatever. In a playful sarcastic manner. It’s something I like. So. If in a relationship someone does something and I playfully say, “Well aren’t you just a little tramp.” and they take severe offense to it. It’s a red flag for me.
And for each relationship. There’s some part. Fairly unique to that relationship that I need in life. Something that they offer. Example. I have a friend who is caring and understanding and all that Jazz. But when need be. I get the ‘Shut the hell up and get over it. Sometimes you just have to move on’ Speech. But they know when it’s appropriate. Because some people do it at times when it’s not what I need to hear. And it hurts me. It’s the ones who know me well enough. To know when to be serious. And when To be sarcastic. And when To be stern. And when to be caring. Those are the ones I keep in my life. The ones who know. The ones are what I need.
And I just hope that one day. I’ll find the girl who is everything.
My very own Frankenstein.
(To clear. Yes I am aware that I’m referring to Frankenstein’s Monster. Frankenstein was the Doctor. However, in popular culture frankensteining is the act of taking from several things and making one thing. And also I don’t want to refer to my perfect relationship as a monster. So THERE!)
You’re trying to create a perfect person, but , I guess you know exactly how that will turn out,….. something like Frankenstein created…. pieces that don’t match perfectly.
True enough. But. I guess my goal is more to pull malleable characteristics and points from people. And I mean. I clearly can’t go all ‘Weird Science’ and create a girl. So it’s just.. Things I look for that tend to mesh well with me. I’m hopeful that there’s someone out there somewhere.. Gotta have hope.
* grins * True. Out of the population of 7 billion , 3 billion are women ( yes, there are more men now than women ) so I’m sure there’s gotta have someone that fits your ideal. It’s good to have an ideal though. I’m sure everybody has one. You don’t have to settle for less.